{"id":919,"date":"2020-07-27T14:55:21","date_gmt":"2020-07-27T11:55:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/?p=919"},"modified":"2020-07-27T14:56:15","modified_gmt":"2020-07-27T11:56:15","slug":"mutlaka-tanisilmasi-gereken-kisi-asim-gultekin-merhum","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/2020\/07\/27\/mutlaka-tanisilmasi-gereken-kisi-asim-gultekin-merhum\/","title":{"rendered":"Mutlaka Tan\u0131\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 Gereken Ki\u015fi, As\u0131m G\u00fcltekin, Merhum"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><a href=\"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resized_26327-da07163e1057461bmansetc.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"alignnone size-full wp-image-920\" src=\"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resized_26327-da07163e1057461bmansetc.jpg\" alt=\"resized_26327-da07163e1057461bmansetc\" width=\"840\" height=\"471\" srcset=\"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resized_26327-da07163e1057461bmansetc.jpg 840w, http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resized_26327-da07163e1057461bmansetc-300x168.jpg 300w, http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/07\/resized_26327-da07163e1057461bmansetc-768x431.jpg 768w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 840px) 100vw, 840px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Mutlaka Tan\u0131\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 Gereken Ki\u015fi, As\u0131m G\u00fcltekin, Merhum<\/p>\n<p>Odamda yanl\u0131z \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, bir misafir gelir. Yola gidecektir ve vedaya gelmi\u015ftir. Asl\u0131nda ne \u00f6nemlidir de\u011fil mi vedalar. \u0130nsano\u011flunun hayat\u0131nda tan\u0131k oldu\u011fu, de\u011fer verdi\u011fi, kendisi i\u00e7in bir anlam\u0131 olan birisinden bir s\u00fcre ayr\u0131 kalaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131n bildirilmesidir. Helalle\u015fmedir. Vefad\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Kimi vedalar ge\u00e7icidir, kimileri ise d\u00fcnya zaman\u0131nda s\u00fcreklidir.<\/p>\n<p>Dostum sormu\u015ftu;<\/p>\n<p>-Sahi bu kitaplar da ne masanda, etrafta.<\/p>\n<p>Bir ka\u00e7 ufak tefek \u00e7al\u0131\u015fmadan bahsedince, mutlaka tan\u0131\u015fman gereken birisini tan\u0131yorum demi\u015ftir. Bu c\u00fcmlenin s\u0131radanl\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131n yan\u0131nda ezicili\u011fi de olaca\u011f\u0131n\u0131 o an d\u00fc\u015f\u00fcnmek m\u00fcmk\u00fcn de\u011fildir. Mutlaka tan\u0131\u015fmak gereken ki\u015filerin olmas\u0131\u2026 Birilerinin d\u00fcnyada e\u015f zamanl\u0131 ya\u015famas\u0131 ve onlarla mutlaka tan\u0131\u015fman\u0131n gerekli olmas\u0131, halen f\u0131rsat varken\u2026D\u00fcnya \u00fczerinde acaba mutlaka tan\u0131\u015fmam\u0131z gereken insanlar\u0131n ne kadar\u0131yla tan\u0131\u015fabiliyoruz. Ka\u00e7\u0131na kader m\u00fcsaade ediyor, ka\u00e7\u0131na ise \u00f6m\u00fcr yetmiyor.<\/p>\n<p>Numaras\u0131n\u0131 ald\u0131\u011f\u0131m de\u011ferli As\u0131m G\u00dcLTEK\u0130N, kendisini y\u00fczy\u00fcze tan\u0131m\u0131yor olmama, ve ilk kez aramama ra\u011fmen bir dost s\u0131cakl\u0131\u011f\u0131nda sohbete ba\u015flar. Kelimelerle yak\u0131ndan ilgilendi\u011finden bahseder. Kuran-\u0131 Kerimde ge\u00e7en Arap\u00e7a kelimelerin aralar\u0131ndaki k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fck farklar\u0131 a\u00e7\u0131klayan \u00e7ok de\u011ferli bir eser olan \u201cFarklar S\u00f6zl\u00fc\u011f\u00fc\u201d kitab\u0131ndan \u00f6vg\u00fcyle bahseder. T\u00fcrk\u00e7e\u2019de e\u015f anlaml\u0131 kelimelerle ilgili bir s\u00f6zl\u00fck yazmay\u0131 arzulad\u0131\u011f\u0131n\u0131, ama b\u00f6yle bir \u00e7al\u0131\u015fman\u0131n \u00e7ok vakit ve emek istedi\u011fini anlat\u0131r.<\/p>\n<p>Sonra, sorar bana; \u201cSahi, sen ka\u00e7 ya\u015f\u0131ndas\u0131n karde\u015fim?\u201d<\/p>\n<p>33 ya\u015f\u0131mday\u0131m deyince,<\/p>\n<p>\u201cHayat \u00e7ok k\u0131sa, s\u00f6zl\u00fck\u00e7\u00fclerin kimileri eserlerini \u00f6lmeden bitiremez. Yay\u0131nlayamadan \u00f6l\u00fcr\u201d der. \u201cGer\u00e7i sen daha gen\u00e7mi\u015fsin ama kader bu, ne kadar ya\u015fayaca\u011f\u0131m\u0131z\u0131 bilemeyiz\u201d diye ekler.<\/p>\n<p>\u0130stanbul\u2019da kendisini ziyaret etmek istedi\u011fimi s\u00f6yleyince, \u201ckarde\u015fim tam \u015fu anda Yalova\u2019ya yola \u00e7\u0131k\u0131yorum.&#8221; der.\u00a0 Yalova\u2019ya davet eder hatta. \u201c\u0130stanbul\u2019a \u00e7ok uzak say\u0131lmaz\u201d diye ekler samimiyetinin g\u00f6stergesi olarak.<\/p>\n<p>Daha \u00f6nce al\u0131nm\u0131\u015f bir\u00e7ok randevu nedeniyle gidemedi\u011fim o Yalova\u2019dan 3 g\u00fcn sonra t\u00fcm T\u00fcrkiye\u2019yi yasa bo\u011fan bir haber gelir. 45 ya\u015f\u0131ndaki bu dost insan, ge\u00e7irdi\u011fi kalp krizi sonras\u0131 aram\u0131zdan ayr\u0131lm\u0131\u015ft\u0131r. Rahman\u2019a kavu\u015fmu\u015ftur.<\/p>\n<p>Bu 15 dakikal\u0131k telefon g\u00f6r\u00fc\u015fmesini, merhumun tavsiyelerini ve anlatt\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131, \u00f6mr\u00fcm boyunca unutmayaca\u011f\u0131m. Ve anlayabildi\u011fim hikmetlerini s\u00fcrekli akl\u0131mda tutmaya \u00e7al\u0131\u015faca\u011f\u0131m.<\/p>\n<p>Allah Rahmet Eylesin.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Mutlaka Tan\u0131\u015f\u0131lmas\u0131 Gereken Ki\u015fi, As\u0131m G\u00fcltekin, Merhum Odamda yanl\u0131z \u00e7al\u0131\u015f\u0131rken, bir misafir gelir. Yola gidecektir ve vedaya gelmi\u015ftir. Asl\u0131nda ne \u00f6nemlidir de\u011fil mi vedalar. \u0130nsano\u011flunun hayat\u0131nda tan\u0131k oldu\u011fu, de\u011fer verdi\u011fi, kendisi i\u00e7in bir anlam\u0131 olan birisinden&#46;&#46;&#46;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":920,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[124],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-919","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-anilar"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=919"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":921,"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/919\/revisions\/921"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/920"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=919"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=919"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/www.ibrahimaybek.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=919"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}